Same here.
Most of my worlds are rather boring. I get one or two opponents within a few tiles. Then a few scattered resources in various locations.
Ultimately, I end up going to war with the nearest ones within 50-60 tuns, usually wiping them off the mad (both extreme and hard difficulty, ridiculous is just too ridiculous). After that the locations where I would want to settle cities are blindingly obvious. Two fertiles + an clay pit, arcane lab plus a goldmine. Theres never any real decision or tradeoff, just race for the resource cluster as fast as you can; ignoring 90% of the world that is just empty space (hell, GalCiv felt more lively and that was actually set in SPACE!).