Unpack the files into your
documents\my games\fallenenchantress\mods\
folder: You must check use mods in the game to use these henchwomen.
For those that don't want to click on use mods and have it part of the default game, then for organization purposes put under your documents fallen enchantress location the following files in these locations.
henchwoman.xml goes into your units folder
henchclothes.xml goes into your items folder
henchartitems.xml goes into your items folder
henchabilities.xml goes into your items folder
henchracetypes.xml goes into racetypes
This mod is Stormworld compatible (untested, but I did what heavenfall asked of me)
Note that: henchstormworld.xml is for stormworld compatibility (but will not cause any problems if you load it into your usual game).
There is a limitation how-ever. In order, to custom design your own female henchmen you have to edit on of the pre-existing henchwomen there.
I've updated to the latest version... get it here
https://www.wincustomize.com/explore/elemental_fallen_enchantress/19/
or here
http://fallenenchantress.nexusmods.com/mods/14/