My (in-game) daughter, Alyna, has a male "archer" as her small round portrait. Very annoying. I've saved the debug.err if it will help. Also, I can't seem to get Alyna to be the leader of her army. Very inconvenient as she can't teleport her party.
http://filebin.ca/socvh/debugAlynaPortrait.err
http://filebin.ca/adqdb/Picture0002.jpg