joe, i think immediacy was an issue here. lol. i guess he just didn't have a can of spray paint in his pocket when inspiration struck. imagine how it might have been different... ;)
it is because his feelings and friendship ARE valued that we have a problem. like i said, he is a nice guy. and i'm certain he already knows the truth deep down. my point was that people such as wayne put themselves into situations where eventually they are hurt. the truth is, this guy colonises peoples' lives. he calls at all hours. he represents himself as an official on behalf of the band without permission... ... he doesn't seem to know much about their music, or anything about them
psychx, thanks for your words. i'm actually happily married and wrote that based on the dick my friend is dating. lol. but i like your way of thinking. my hubby and i actually joke and say that we love each other so much, we should get divorced !!!!. (we are joking, but i'm sure you get my meaning :). "v"
... whatever you are, i am certain to be one too. lol. so don't worry too much ;). awareness saves you "v"
"IF" - By Rudyard Kipling ... If you can keep your head when all about you are losing theirs, and blaming it on you; If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you, but make allowance for their doubting too: If you can wait and not be tired by waiting; or being lied about - don't deal in lies, Or being hated - don'
muggaz, petal ... being 20 something is always woeful. i remember it well. just don't go thinking it will improve. i myself am as stupid and confused at 34 as i have ever been, and the things i believed in my 20's are now just a load of embarrasing kaka. (but the men i dated and DIDN'T marry are all bald now. like a curse. haaaa). but i digress. my sweet ... the 30's are the new 20's ... so relax pet .... you're only 14. "v"
great read. i have been the same (healthy) weight for years, but once lost 33% of my bodyweight in 3 months from illness. the worst part of the whole experience by far was the utter idiots who saw me afterwards and said "you look so thin ! how did you do it?" !. damouse, you are spot on - we girls are never happy :)
this guy was motivated by his religion, but there is a lesson in there for all of us, whatever we believe ... the single word "eternity" appeared amidst the fireworks at the end of the opening ceremony of the sydney olympics. the story behind that is the amazing one of mr arthur stace, 1884-1967. born in sydney, arthur stace grew up in poverty, looking after himself and stealing as needed. at twelve he was made a ward of the state. at fifteen he was in jail. in 1930, he went to a c
hi opheliasdestiny. i can relate to your anguish ;). i read a great theory ages ago (but have lost the book). basically, the author named a personality-type as "the transactionists" (odd word, i know). these "transactionists" are tough cookies. they think that if we are all having the same experience, all of us must have the same views on it, or somebody has to be WRONG !. of course, try theology or any other "sensitive" matter with such a person, and you're going to get a pr
opheliasdestiny ... hel-lo sister ! :). that was no wild goose chase, in fact it was pretty spot on. nobody is oppressing me. it all comes from within and it brings such guilt. other women amaze me with their smooth passage through all this shit. i too wonder if i should remove myself. but from what ?. and for what ?. and would it really be any different anyway ?. it's like: everywhere i go, there i am. keep in touch ophelia. :). "v"
i don't like "scowlers". maybe i have a bit too much to say for myself, but at least i have the nerve to actually SAY it. don't you hate it when you say or do something and somebody makes THAT face ?. that face that says "i completely disapprove of what you just said/did, but i lack the conviction/courage to give voice to that. i will instead sit here with this disapproving look welded onto my countenence and make certain that you notice it". so you try. you really do. you say: "wh
i have musician friends. (don't be impressed. all geeky girls do). anyway, one of these friends (and by default thereby, all of us) has found himself suddenly in possession of a "wayne". any of you who have musical or artistic friends will have met a wayne at some point. waynes' start out seeming harmless enough. they pop up at the odd show. have a chat, maybe a beer afterwards. then they appear more regularly. in more places. soon, you have yourselves a real problem. now, wayne is
people who blame others for their emotional baggage annoy me. if i had a dollar for every person i've heard blame their vile behaviour some long-since-dead love, i'd be much more of a bitch than i am now. haha. but i digress ... i don't deny that it is possible, even desirable, to ponder "what went wrong" and adjust your behaviour or expectations accordingly. but is that possible when you're too close to have any objectivity ?. using bad past experiences as an excuse to love a new p
hi joe. just paying a return visit. :). being a girl (ok, 34 is a woman lol) gives me the ability to decode the language they use without the need to use it myself. ok, so, for the translation: YOU: I'm not a very attractive person, at least not in my mind. = i am good enough for myself, but i like to aim high with the ladies YOU: Amanda: Shes kinda short, but really cute for starters = she is out of my league, but i wouldn't like her if she wasn't YOU: I'm beginning
~bows~ ... or should that be ... ~curtsies~ ... me too ... but i SO wish i wrote that. :)
i did not write this. i wish i did, though :). New Study Says You’re An Idiot A new study released today by the Pew Foundation and conducted by Dr. Walter Wiznowski of Princeton University suggests that there is good and solid evidence that you are a complete and utter idiot. The three-year study, which was conducted without y
... yourself. i like this website "future me" (link below) it lets you compose email and post-date its' delivery for anytime up until 2028. of course its' glaring flaw is the short lives of most email addresses, but it's still fun :)
well then m, whichever one of manages to temporarily disable conscience in order to engage instinst first has to reveal the details ... agreed ? ;)
agreed brad and thanks ... i love the neat summation. you condensed the essence of my rambling to one sentence ... wish i could do that :)
my blunt presentation aside, that was sort of my point .. i thought ... we don't like to admit that we are propelled around by our genetic urge to reproduce and not some grand plan of OURS.
sex is much, much too straightforward for we humans reproductive organs are unique as far as organs go, in that they contribute nothing to our survival. they are purpose built for reproduction and do not depend on pleasurable sensations, although they do afford some. there is no actual thing as "sexuality", and there are no "sex organs": no part of the body is designed solely for pleasurable purposes. you could c
this is not a litany of praise for my righteousness but a damning tirade of curses for my stupidity, for which i ... ... DO NOT open like a flower in grateful thanks. i instead wither but do. not. die. of love no sense of comfort is provided by my morality ... ... (but an unsatiated and infuriated love is, and it wakes me nightly to demand an audience for its’ torture) the reward for my virtue is not exultatio
... jesse my sweet, complimenting you is like throwing a toothpick into a volcano
the phobia of menstruation is so common as to have a name: menophobia . how did that happen ?. at a guess, a head-on collision between the “part-time pagans” and the apparently misinformed rest of us ?. (i have no issue with paganism. just the new, noisy faction claiming to represent it). can these "weekend witches" who spout fakery filled with such gems as “love spells” really expect to help with their misinformation ?. it’s all good as long
your paradox is instinct versus conscience: you want sex and its' associated comforts, yet you're involuntarily using past experience to occupy the space between intention and action. i sympathise. it is not only really annoying but it tends to make debauchery a little less, well, debauched. i have no clue what to do about it though. ;)
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