kyogrel, diplomacy is currently disabled. BUT if you click on a town, then click on the landscape it has some 'basic menu options'...
ie there are pictures in your lower lef hand corner of resarch, design, kingdom....and two hands holding for diplomacy. Click on that.
Now there are no 'real' diplomatic options avialable BUT the 'dynasty' option. click on dynasty, then arrange marriages....and ABRA CADABRA (sorry ive had a few beers) you can marry off hat whiney little boy who wont go to football practice to the mining, ugly orgnized leader of gilden!!! good riddance!