Why?

Am I the only one who thinks this way?

from JoeUser Forums
Why do people have sex as if it's a past time?

How can you just go around knocking people up and not really care if you love them or not?

Isn't sex an act of love? Or am i just fucking insane? Does anyone care?

Am I the only person who thinks this way?

Am i wrong for thinking this way?

Do other people think the way I do?

Sam
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Reply #1 from JoeUser Forums Top
because they see it on tv and it looks fun to them
because i want to so who has the best pussy in my class
sex is for peoples enjoyment and yes u r just fucking insane no one cares
u r the only person that thinks that why
yes you r wrong for thinking that way you should try it
no you r all alone
Reply #2 from JoeUser Forums Top
Nathan... i know that's you. Because you wrote that when you were sitting right beside me! I know you're a virgin and you will be until you're married so don't go saying that kind of crap...

you are such a dork

Sam
Elemental: Reforged
Reply #3 from JoeUser Forums Top
u think that i am but me and ur mom got the popin down pretty good if u no what i meen
Reply #4 from JoeUser Forums Top
I am going to be the mature one here and stop this....

Sam
Reply #6 from JoeUser Forums Top
Because it's fun, and somewhere along the line the fun of the act became more important then the love the act was supposed to represent. We just live in a messed up society. But I'll agree with you, sex should wait until your with someone you love, preferably married. Course, you are probably insane, most people are
Reply #7 from JoeUser Forums Top
Fun is an opinion. Some people might actually think it's not fun. I don't know of any who don't, but I'm sure there's someone out there somewhere that doesn't think that it's fun. Sex shouldn't happen until you've found that one and you're married to them. Sex is supposed to be something special, something saved for that special moment in your life. You should just knock people up and not care about them. That's completely insane. So no Sam, you're not insane.

~carebear~
Reply #8 from JoeUser Forums Top
You're not insane...and you know what...don't let anyone tell you that having sex with everyone is okay, because its not.

Another teacher, who is younger than me by at least a year, has probably slept with 3-4 people since she moved here from Minnesota. And then she's all upset because she gets an STD and has to talk to her current boyfriend about it? I don't feel sorry for you one bit. Duh? You sleep with that many people in a short amount of time, yeah, you're going to catch something.

Sex to her isn't about love or committment. It's about partying and trying to get some stupid moronic drunk man to stay with her for more than five seconds. And it's retarded.

My boyfriend and I have been arguing alot lately...and the teacher next door to me has the gall to tell me that we need to have sex. That that will correct all of the issues. And it won't, because I'll feel guilty, and he'll feel guilty, and then what's the point of even getting married, you know? There isn't one. We already have to live in the same apt (Las Vegas is mucho $$$$...don't ever move here)... He's got his room, I've got mine. And there's no sex involved. And we're both really happy with that arrangement. Sex is just a hobby for some people, a tool to manipulate a partner...

Keep putting sex up there on the pedestal, buddy, because that's where it belongs.
Reply #9 from JoeUser Forums Top
Sex is just a hobby for some people, a tool to manipulate a partner...


While pre-martial sex may not be for you --and you are free to make that choice--I find it annoying that you have branded everyone who does not choose as you did with the sex fiend brush. You can have responsible sex without being head over heels for the partner--and it doesn't make you a manipulator.

You don't want other people to judge you for your choices, you should refrain from judging them. I'm not saying that you need to share their lifestyle--but a little more compassion and a lost less self-righteousness would be appreciated.

Sam--sex is personal. Only you know when its right for you. It can be an act of love--or it can simply be an act of lust. Whatever it is, you should only do it when you are ready--but everyone is ready at different times--so try to understand other people rather than condemning them for having a different stance.
Reply #10 from JoeUser Forums Top
Marcie.... i completely look up to you. You are the type of woman who i want to grow up to be.

I won't have sex until i am married... and i'm not even going to give my heart away anymore (at least for right now) for the fear it will be broken again.

Thank you for your comment


I am not trying to condem anyone shades of grey, i am extremely sorry if i offended you. Maybe i should have worded this article more differently so i do not hurt anyone's feelings.

That is why i hate posting things on JU

Sam
Reply #11 from JoeUser Forums Top
am not trying to condem anyone shades of grey, i am extremely sorry if i offended you. Maybe i should have worded this article more differently so i do not hurt anyone's feelings.


I wasn't personally offended--As I said, sex is personal--as are my beliefs regarding when and where sex is acceptable. However, I could see people being offended by these comments (which you didn't write):

And it's retarded


a tool to manipulate a partner


Sex is just a hobby for some peop


My point was simply that it is not wrong for you to want to wait, and it is not wrong for others to choose not to wait. Everyone is different and we should respect everyone's right to make decisions for themselves. I applaud your decision to wait--but not more than I would applaud someone's well-thought out decision to have responsible sex. It's when people havent thought about it that it is a problem. Yes, premarital sex is a sin--but so is judging others or having bad thoughts--none of us are so righteous that we can judge others.


Reply #12 from JoeUser Forums Top
Cause it feels good
Well...that's just usually horny guys...I wouldn't personally know.
Either love or the desire to pop one off
No...
Yes


Well...I answered them ...

~Zoo