Thank for the reply guys. And sjaminei it not that I like kid in the game lol. I just want a dynasty feeling to the game. This is why I love the Sim 3 and The Guild game. Where when your main character kick the bucket, their kid take over.
Btw-- I test the Ctrl -F some more. Something there no message and nothing happen. While sometime the message pop up and I notice a random female NPC "wife" spawn at my capital.