baffled by the diplomacy AI
So the Pariden lady must be bipolar. I'm running my Altar civilization and she keeps warning me about the other faction, and how we need to get rid of them. So I have a chat with her and say "I'll declare war on them if you will!" and she's all like "nope, no, that's just not acceptable." I see her foreign policy with said faction is "close." Huh? Why do you keep bugging me about them? Then she sends me money for free just because she likes me. And I go to trade and she wants 60 wargs for 130 gold. Okay forget that idea, how about I just wait a while and then demand a tribute? No go, but a few seasons later she sends me another 80 gold for no reason. Honestly I think I have to just end the relationship with the way she keeps toying with my emotions.