Why can't Winni sleep?
Because Frogboy's game has hold of his cortex, and won't let go.
In thinking about the diplomacy system, these are what's swilling around in there now:
1: Instead of the usual "love-hate" single slider along which all of the other AIs see you (and therefore make choices of diplomacy based upon), how about 3 sliders that color the AI's judgement of you? "Trust-Distrust", "Respect-Disrespect", and "Love-Hate".
The trust scale is based upon how much you follow through on your commitments (You do what you say you'll do), and influence how the AI will commit economically to aiding you (I don't trust you, so I'm not going to engage in a swap of resources)
The Respect scale is based upon how often your decisions match up with what the AI's choices are (how aligned you are with the AI's goals), and influences how the AI will commit militarily to aiding you (I respect your choices, and will send units to aid you)
The Love scale is based on how the AI "grew up" in your castle, and is somewhat random seeded, but could be influenced by random events and your choices during the rearing of that child. If the child is born, there's some time for it to grow up in your town, during which you get random events that you get to make choices on (it's their 3rd birthday! Do you A: Throw a big party, at a cost of -35000 gold, but the love of your child, B: tell him that a birthday is no excuse for not studying, and the child gains +2 capability to research spells (but may hate you a little bit for it), or C: can't be bothered with children; I'm too busy drilling my army to be bothered with this whelp! (+20 experience to some unit in your garrison, but the child resents you for it). At the end of the child rearing, the love scale is set, but then is affected by your attention to them (how often you contact them when they're an adult), and trends towards neutral every turn that you're not in contact with them (hate and love both lessen with distance). This scale colors the other scales, and also influences how they react to you in general.
But, you can only really see the love scale, in the form of the facial expression (or a number that represents it) of your child. The other scales can't be directly observed, but need to be found out through spying, scrying, or asking OTHER AI's about how a given AI respects or trusts you (and those AIs in turn might not tell you the truth, given their own trust, respect, and love of you).
Okay, now I've got it out of my head, and can go back to sleep. As always, I welcome the community to help make this a better idea.
Winni