Dropped at game start in multiplayer....

i keep getting dropped at the start of multiplayer games w the demo, heres some blah blah info....

Card name: NVIDIA GeForce 8500 GT
     Manufacturer: NVIDIA
        Chip type: GeForce 8500 GT
         DAC type: Integrated RAMDAC
       Device Key: Enum\PCI\VEN_10DE&DEV_0421&SUBSYS_0480196E&REV_A1
   Display Memory: 1268 MB
 Dedicated Memory: 501 MB
    Shared Memory: 767 MB
     Current Mode: 1280 x 960 (32 bit) (60Hz)

BIOS: oC)Phoenix - AwardBIOSTeDell System v6.00PG
          Processor: AMD Athlon(tm) 64 X2 Dual Core Processor 5000+ (2 CPUs), ~2.6GHz
             Memory: 2046MB RAM
          Page File: 938MB used, 3395MB available
        Windows Dir: C:\Windows
    DirectX Version: DirectX 10

i know the card is a little slow, but i run games that require alot more resources then this....