I'm a Loser and I'm Proud of It!!

For darn sure!!

We all know that in highschool everyone is classified into a specific group. Wether it be the preps, gothics, average, losers, nerds, etc. Well ever since this past school year I made friends with Capt. Cornbread, Zoologist03, and Deathbybeebles. Lets just say that they're your typical losers. lol, sorry guys! Now I can proudly say that I am also a loser too! I love these guys to death and I would die for them if I had to. So yeah, I'm also your typical loser.

Well today, I found out that I am truly a loser. For my FFA class, we tooka trip to three industry businesses. When we first got on the bues me and my two friends, Jessica and Stacey, sat up front. Then the rest of the group got on(which was about 7 other kids, plus a parent) they went to sit in the back. These peope were the "preps" or as Alex would say, "whores". One of them spoke up so me and jess, and stacey could hear, and said, " Lets go to the back of the bus! It's where all the "cool" kids sit!" So then me and Jess joked around about what she said. We were saying how funny it was that we were not "cool" enough to sit in the back. Jess was like, "Oh look! A tear, because I'm not allowed to sit in the back with the "cool" kids!" lol. So we joked around with it for a while.

WEll as most of the first half of the day went by it was lunch time! Yes!! lol. So we got to what us Amands people would like to call China Bob's to eat. Which is actually a Chineese resturant(sp?) that used to be a Bob Evans. Well as I went to sit down, I hit my head on a lamp that was on the wall above my seat. lol. Yeah, it hurt, but it was funny. Well the "preps" saw this and just rolled their eyes and were probably saying something along the lines of, "How stupid!" Well later, Jessica spilled her glass of pop. And again, they just gave us one of their "evil" looks.

So now we get back on the bus. We head to another industry place. Well when we were practically done with the tour it started to rain. So we had to run to the bus and put up all the windows. So we got done with that and then the preps wanted to go sit outside under a shelter house thingy. Well the one girl's mom stayed on the bus with me and jess and stacey. So she speaks up and says, " Mom, what are you doing? You need to get off of the bus and not sit with those stupid losers!" Ok, you think most people would get offened? Well I'll tell you what, I started busting out laughing at that comment. Again, another "evil" look. Then her mom is like, " Oh just ignor them. They're just so immature. And they're just dishing it out for what they went through when they were sophmores last year." Oh my, I just lost it there! It was so awesome! Her own mom thought she was stupid! Haha! How great is that! I mean, what if your mom thought you were stupid, but she didn't tell you, instead everyone else when you acted all snoby!

Well we were off to the third and final place. By then the preps were getting annoyed with us losers being there. It was all funny. Seeing them roll their eyes and be mouthy. But I guess what they don't know is that hardly anyone at the school even likes them. Most people just pretend to. And to say the least us losers have more friends then they do. So now tell me, how are they popular? Well when you dress rather,...ummm...lets just say....slutty, and act like your better....well then you have your average popular person. Don't get me wrong, some of them are nice, but most....well you get the jist.

Guess what???..............................

I'M A LOSER AND I'M MIGHT DARN PROUD OF IT NO MATTER WHAT ANYONE OR ANYWHO THINKS OF ME!!!!! SO DON'T TRY AND TAKE MY LOSERNESS AWAY!! BECAUSE I LIKE BEING A LOSER AND THERE'S NOTHING THOSE PREPS CAN DO!!

Ok, sorry had to let that out. It's just all funny....well at least i think. lol.

~carebear~
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That's great! If I wasn't so self-conscious in high school, I would have enjoyed it much more. I'm sure those students rolling their eyes raising their nose to others will eventually realize how silly they look to others. At least I hope they do.

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Touché indeed Carebear!!!!

That was a really awesome post.... and by being so uncool, and not caring for 'cool' that makes you far 'cooler' than the 'cool' kids will ever be!!!

I mean that from the bottom of my heart, it's really refreshing to see a young girl who doesn't care for peer pressure, and 'cool' is always in the eye of the beholder...

If I may recommend some good listening - "There is always someone cooler than you" by Ben Folds... find it, listen to it, and love it!!! or you can hate it... but that would make you 'uncool'

BAM!!!
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Well, thanks for again classifying me as a loser....ah well, you have more fun that way

Nice post,
~Zoo
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Only if I knew that none of it would matter past high school....haha
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I love being a loser, and I can almost say I got you hooked on loser!

When you've been called gay you whole life and still not take offense to it, you know you're gonna be able to laugh at stupid stuff like that.

Can you tell me who's mom that was? That sounds like something I would have done, or gone to the back to loser them up a bit. Hehehe!

Capt. over and out!
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Only if I knew that none of it would matter past high school....haha
Yeah 4 years later and it's like it never happened.  I kept most of my friends but the things that happened in high school seem so unimportant once you have college and work to worry about...
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I can't believe this sort of crap still goes on in High Schools, I thought all that incredible polarization ended in like the 70's. I mean the High School I went to (now starting my Sophomore year of College in two weeks) sure there were some distinctions between people, but relatively little disdain between "groups."

I mean, I can't honestly say what "group" I fit into, I wasn't a "loser" because I had friends who were both immensely popular and completely unknown. I was academically up there, top 2% of class and all that, but I wasn't considered a nerd or dork or whatnot. I certainly wasn't a "jock" of any sort.

Basically, most everyone who knew me enjoyed my sense of humor and how I liked to make fun of teachers and make them "suffer" for the way they taught. Thankfully most were really good sports about it, and were able to make fun of themselves, or me when the opportunity arose.

Some thought me annoying or obnoxious, especially when they were the "be quiet, go along with the teacher and suck up" type.

Many thought me weird, because I enjoy saying and doing weird things.

Some were afraid of me because of my vocal ways and propensity for saying horribly offensive (and hilarious) things, since they couldn't tell I was just kidding.

Some looked down on me for my political and religious views, while others respected me for them.

Frankly, I figured all high schools were pretty accepting these days, though these kids on your bus and such sound way stereotypical and lame... and that's lame.

As for the sitting at the back of the bus thing, I understand not wanting to draw wrath on yourself or whatnot, but why didn't your friends just sit there to begin with? Because "the cool kids" expect to sit there? So what, screw 'em, next time sit where you want, you did a good job ignoring their disregard for you later on, why not ignore what they think they're due and take their stupid seats?
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That was a really awesome post.... and by being so uncool, and not caring for 'cool' that makes you far 'cooler' than the 'cool' kids will ever be!!!


I mean that from the bottom of my heart, it's really refreshing to see a young girl who doesn't care for peer pressure, and 'cool' is always in the eye of the beholder...


If I may recommend some good listening - "There is always someone cooler than you" by Ben Folds... find it, listen to it, and love it!!! or you can hate it... but that would make you 'uncool'


Wow I'm cool now!! Muggaz thinks I'm cool!! Yay!!! Yeah, I really don't care. lol. And maybe I just might try to find that book next time I'm out shopping! Thanks Muggaz!!

Well, thanks for again classifying me as a loser....ah well, you have more fun that way


Ah, yes indeed Shaun. I do have more fun that way!

I love being a loser, and I can almost say I got you hooked on loser!


Yup, I love it too! And yeah you were the one that basically got me hooked on loser. It's kinda one of those hooked on phonics things, except loser style! You know what?? Thank you so much for making me a loser!

Can you tell me who's mom that was? That sounds like something I would have done, or gone to the back to loser them up a bit. Hehehe!


Yeah, it was Lindsey Lama's mom.

Loser and Loving it,
~carebear~

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I can't believe this sort of crap still goes on in High Schools, I thought all that incredible polarization ended in like the 70's.


Ok, where have you been? It's been going on forever. It never has stoped. My mom and dad told me that it was still there when they were in highschool in the 80's.

Basically, most everyone who knew me enjoyed my sense of humor and how I liked to make fun of teachers and make them "suffer" for the way they taught. Thankfully most were really good sports about it, and were able to make fun of themselves, or me when the opportunity arose.


Tust me, we have a sense of humor, big time! But I guess the preps are just not into it. And I don't really think any of us make fun of the teachers a whole lot. Maybe some but just not a lot.



Some looked down on me for my political and religious views, while others respected me for them.


Well I can see why they looked down on your religious views, but i can't see how many respected it. I'm not trying to be mean or rude or anything, but just relating to Capt.'s article.

As for the sitting at the back of the bus thing, I understand not wanting to draw wrath on yourself or whatnot, but why didn't your friends just sit there to begin with? Because "the cool kids" expect to sit there? So what, screw 'em, next time sit where you want, you did a good job ignoring their disregard for you later on, why not ignore what they think they're due and take their stupid seats


It's the simple reason that we just didn't want to sit in the back. If we wanted to we would have. We would've just rather talked with our advisor instead. I could care less if they wanted to sit back there too. If I wanted to I would even if i'm cool or not. I mean what are they going to do? Kick me out? NO. They can't.

still a loser,
~carebear~
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Years ago, I adopted the "Misfit song" from "Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer" as my personal anthem. I have never relinquished the title (In fact, I even wrote a blog, "Confessions of a Misfit Christian", that sank pretty quickly, about it).
Reply #11 Top
And maybe I just might try to find that book next time I'm out shopping!


It's a song you 'Loser' hehehe....

BAM!!!
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It's a song you 'Loser' hehehe....


Hehehehe....sorry. I must have missed that part Muggaz! . I guess that's my blonde moment for the day. Yeah, go ahead call me a loser!

~carebear~
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Yeah i was with ashley and it was funny but it was rude. Then one of them said we needed to sit down on the bus because we shouldn't stand up. Then our teacher said "they aren't standing there leaning" i thought that was funny. Then ashley ate chinese and that was really funny. The whole day was great. I never laughed so much in my life. ALdso i am loser to and i really don't care what people say.

~blondelife~
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Then ashley ate chinese and that was really funny.


Chinese is always fun!

~carebear~
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Even though you said that you hated it and you don't like to eat at places like that. lol

~blondelife~
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Yeah, i really don't like the food all that much, but it's still funny to go there!

~carebear~
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cb, as an official member of the 'loserturdmafia', i welcome your loserness !. i too am an out and proud loser !!!

long live the loser !!!!. you go, girl !!!


vanessa/mig XX
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cb, as an official member of the 'loserturdmafia', i welcome your loserness !. i too am an out and proud loser !!!


Yes, we must all be proud of our loserness!!!! Thanks Miggy!

~carebear~
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Well I can see why they looked down on your religious views, but i can't see how many respected it. I'm not trying to be mean or rude or anything, but just relating to Capt.'s article.


Many respected them because many respect one's choices of religious beliefs, or lack thereof. Maybe where you live 99% of the people are in fact some form of Christian, but most of the country is not this way, and there are far more atheists, agnostics, or other so-called "freethinkers" in this country than you would probably think.