Daily Love Tip #89
Grant Your Spouse Some Privacy
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The human animal needs a freedom seldom mentioned--freedom from intrusion.
Not everything in marriage is community property. Grant one another some privacy. Don't resent or intrude on the need for personal space. If letters arrive addressed to your mate, resist the urge to open them. Impose a no-snooping rule. Don't eavesdrop on telephone conversations. Treat as sacred the secret contents of personal journals or diaries. That box of childhood memories and treasures should remain untouched until your mate is ready to share it with you.
When your spouse willingly reveals information, you will know that you have earned true trust--one of the most important elements of a strong marriage. Don't try to rush it. Build trust with time, and you'll discover it's well worth the effort.
A happy marriage includes respect for the other person.
Not everything in marriage is community property. Grant one another some privacy. Don't resent or intrude on the need for personal space. If letters arrive addressed to your mate, resist the urge to open them. Impose a no-snooping rule. Don't eavesdrop on telephone conversations. Treat as sacred the secret contents of personal journals or diaries. That box of childhood memories and treasures should remain untouched until your mate is ready to share it with you.
When your spouse willingly reveals information, you will know that you have earned true trust--one of the most important elements of a strong marriage. Don't try to rush it. Build trust with time, and you'll discover it's well worth the effort.
A happy marriage includes respect for the other person.
