Perfect Sex God

June 13, 2004 6:51 AM from

Many women dream at one stage or another of Prince Charming but many more dream and wish for the P.S.G ( perfect sex god ) He who knows how, He who knows when and He who will satisfy our most wanton desires without us having to stop midway and say "not like that darling, like this" and for him to still get it so wrong that we get to the stage where we give up and move on to what is next on our Munchie Menu, with disappointment lingering in our minds.

Whether this applies for long term couples or singles looking for fun, the P.S.G is one that can be trained with a little understanding, patience and will. 90% of men say that a womans pleasure comes first and yet they will be the first to forget that when play sets in.

Sexual relationships are normally ventured into blind, what worked for our last sexual partner isn't necessarily going to work for the next. Men have a habit of believing what's good for them, is good for us, I'm sorry to burst the bubble male friends but this is FALSE!

Touch my mind and my body will follow...many women complain that men forget to satisfy our minds before our bodies. If you cannot keep the flame alive up top the candle shall not glow below but flicker and fade. Unless of course a one night stand is on the menu and all I can say here is, have fun but be safe.

Once the mind has been accomplished then sexual satisfaction may begin, don't dive in and think the world is in your hands, take time to familiarise yourself with needs, not yours, hers...try talking about what you both want and what fantasies you both wish to fulfil. There is nothing like shock to damper an intiment moment, you may want to stick your penis there that does not mean she wants to accept it.

Heading straight to goal is not a good move, women are not football pitches with two goal ends. Learn that there are more parts to a womans body besides the breasts and what's between her legs, to be touched all over is very exciting, sensual and a sure way to get to where you really want to go. Patience is something many men don't possess...yet women have the patience to give that ultimate boring hand job when she is in fact thinking on dinner, as a male friend of mine once said in a poem "he thinks of the names of his football team...to try to prolong that inevitable stream... she is taking "mini-me" full in her... thinking..."hmmmm what shall I do for dinner" patience may seem like a waste of time to you but in the long run you'll both be benefitting from the know how. When pleasing your partner and putting her needs first, don't give her a time limit to fulfill her pleasure, there's nothing like being pressured to cum because you are ready.

After the mind start to please your partners body, many erogenous zones are waiting to be explored and discovered, a female friend of mine "Legs" said that she and her husband like to keep the excitement and learn new sensations by putting folded pieces of paper about fantasies they both wish to fulfill into two fishbowls, his and hers with which they then randomly when in the mood pick and then carry out, this is done as a surprise so that the other does not know when. Discovering is a good start but also remember that anything to do with animals is going to get you a slap and not the kinky kind.

Seduction isn't just about saying "let's do it baby", skipping foreplay and heading for home goal. Instant turn off. Set the mood first or you may end up with a moody miss.

Sexual communication is another level you both need to agree on in early stages. Many men are talk, talk, talk but when it comes down to the dirty find an excuse not to carry through. Some women like to talk dirty and hear the same back but there are still women out there that are shoked by certain words, the dreaded C word is an instant sexual surpression, yet many women also agree that "go on baby suck that cock" is not so pleasant either. I personally don't tend to hear anything other than than the groaning and mmmm's when in this act and if he started to talk to me I would lose all concentration and your lucky moment would probably end, timing is not just for how long it takes for your beer to be pulled.

Whilst on the blow job subject, most women do not need to be guided to your manhood nor is there any chance that their head will fall off, therefore keep your hands anywhere but on her head. She is the one in control, relax and enjoy the moment, you may dominate later should you so wish.

On the sex toy market there is a vibrator with revolutionary, insertable, micro-camera for internal viewing action. Many couples would be wise to buy this invention and take the time to see what truly happens inside a womans body during the excitement process and to enjoy the time in finding the g spot at the same time. This is a suggestion for couples who trust and have the intimacy to be able to look without embaressment. Sex toys are still seen by some as something giggly, talked about but not dared used. Just because a woman has a vibrator in her bedside drawer does not mean that she's not getting satisfaction from you, watch how she uses it, plays and excites herself, only one person in the world can really know what you like and that's YOU. Before she gets to cum alone, take the toy and ask her to moan when you get it right,you'll be amazed how exciting watching can truly be..

We can give what you need, rough, hard and quick, but remember that giving also means receiving so take that thought and make some-one happy. Learn to give back what is given, compromise. With the fishbowl fancies mentioned above this is a good way to keep both of you smiling.

Most common mistakes in the bedroom from a female point of view is : not enough kissing and foreplay, not shaving, nothing like a rough beard or goatee to stop what's normally a pleasant experience. Not spending enough time on her breasts, 3 mins during the whole act is NOT enough. Undressing too soon and then taking your pants of before she's even unbuttoned. Fumbling, if you can't do it swiftly ask her to strip for you.

What do you really want in bed? Massages tend to be a foreplay that lead to sex, back massages or foot, both sexes agree this is one way to start the juices flowing. Ask and you shall receive or after taking into account the above this should now be the case.

Sex is about experimenting, satisfaction, discovery and ecstacy, enjoy !

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