Dear Sodaiho,
Actually the Christian belief that all those who do not accept Christ will go to hell is a major part of their faith - particularly for those of a fundamentalist persuasion. As I do not accept this doctrine, I am I suppose by definition one of those destined for the great fiery pit. And yet, after a little consideration, I do not think that this doctrine or belief is quite as offensive as it seems to you.
First of all the biblical verses that claim that Jesus "is the way, the truth and life" and that "no-one comes to the Father except through [him]" are remarkably vague. Nowhere in the christian scripture does it
actually say that you have to 'get down on your knees and say aloud the little prayer at the end of this pamphlet accepting Jesus into your heart', although that will almost certainly be the
interpretation put on the scripture by the fundamentalist missioner who has just shoved the leaflet into your sweaty palm as you were leaving the shopping mall. Who really knows just what is meant by 'the way'; perhaps an attempt to practice zazen daily in an effort to be more christ-like will actually be acceptable at the great final interview at the pearly gates and it is in
that sense that he "is the way". That of course is not how the fundamentalist sees it, but maybe, come the day, they'll just have to suck it up, like the prodigal son's resentful older brother, when the Almighty issues you with your free pass to eternity, despite your 'idol worship' and not 'buying christmas'.
But even if this get out clause is rejected on appeal at the bar of heaven and the fundies are right, I am reminded of the importance of intention in dharma teaching: even a 'bad' act, if carried out with a noble intention, accrues good karma, whereas even a beneficial act, if carried out with an evil intention accrues bad karma. So KFC is right in this sense: if when he says, "Love is telling you even if it's not pleasant to hear", he sincerely means this and love is his intention, how can it be anything other than a karmically meritorious action? On the other hand, if someone with a weak and immature spirituality tells you you are going to go to hell because s/he is a spiteful hateful person who gets her/his jollies from a kind of spiritual sadism, well,
"Whatever karma I create, whether good or evil, that I shall inherit."
The Buddha, Anguttara Nikaya V.57 - Upajjhatthana Sutta
Many people in the west turn to dharma teaching because of resentment felt towards christianity. This is almost always a great mistake. For a long time, christian beliefs made no sense to me at all. Dharma teaching actually taught me to see the beauty and mystery in the christian message, even while showing me that christianity is not the path for me.
To you with palms pressed together - or as we say in the Korean tradition '
hapjeong'