Interesting commentary on the input provided by a beta. Part of the reason I concentrate on crashes and stability issues is usually regardless of how I feel about a system or dynamic theres already an opinion out there that states it.
I will say that FE is heads above E:WOM at this point.
Where as E:Wom did tons of things badly, FE does less things better. But there does seem to be something missing from the overall game which would increase playability. Doing one thing very well. I don't care if its more attention into Tactical combat or City or empire building, Better character development or any other dynamic. The point is after 5 or 6 games with the current version I was done with it. (Other than reminding myself how to mod in XML)
A good game always does at least 1 thing VERY well, and I'm just not seeing it at this point in FE.
Examples: Total war series.. I don't know about the newer versions but older versions like rome.. the City building/ empire management was mediocre at bests.. the Realt time tactical battles was the bread and butter.
Final fantasy tactics- Tactical turn based Combat, thats all this game did really.. sure there was the RPG aspect but that system only reinforced the tactical combat.
Civ IV: Empire building and city building. Combat was crap but everyone accepted it because the rest of the game was good.
Any Generic City builder : Doesn't matter if its Caesar IV or Tropico 3, They do well in the city building aspect. Sure there are combat, diplomacy etc aspects shoe horned in to differentiate them but they are a city builder above all else and do it well.
FE: it has City building, empire building, Tactical combat and RPG aspects.. but honestly there is no one specific apect I can point to at this point and say THAT is what makes the game awesome because its done so well. All aspects are okay but a bunch of okay features tied together doesn't keep me coming back.
Now thats all my opinion of course. I don't think me supplying my specific input is as helpful as the above general opinion piece.