So you want a Sins that is more "4X"? Probably doesn't exist lol. Real time games naturally lean more towards combat, turn based ones more micro management, for many reasons.

Homeworld was the better game as far as I am concerned. Homeworld did everything so much better, the story (both the backstory and the campaign) was one of the best I have ever seen, the gameplay was great, and the music was the icing on the cake.

I have only played the demo for Homeworld 2, and I wasn't that impressed, I didn't like the voice acting, and the gameplay was okay, strike craft squadrons and the improved interface were the only things I really liked. Unfortunately, good luck finding anything Homeworld nowadays. I have never even heard of a 3D RTS that was as good as Homeworld, not even its sequels.

GoaFan77 is right as far as I know, I have never heard of a game that fulfills those requirements.

Sins is the best space RTS available. Try playing on larger maps.

Distant Worlds was given high rating by Reviewers, but when I saw the trailer / YouTube Video it was 2D.

Whereas Star Ruler is 3D, a nice new tutorial shows the basics, and the YouTube links on the Forum shows what the game can do.

Sins is a polished game, optimised for RTS, and lots of fun, but its an apples to oranges comparison with Star Ruler.

I would compare Star Ruler with Sword of the Stars, somewhat, when it comes to customization.

Maybe look into some of the mods for Sins.

By space RTS do you mean Homeworld-styled or just a futuristic/space-themed RTS?

If you mean the first, then I do not know anything better than the Homeworld series.

If you mean the second, then Starcraft, Total Annihilation, Dark Reign, EARTH 2150, even Battlezone 2 can also be considered a futuristic-space RTS.

The campaign is in real-time.  Pretty fun, though, and the space battles are very good IMHO. 

Indeed, Sins is by no means a complex game, at least by the usual standards of the 4x sub-genre.  Quite the opposite, actually -- it's, at most, a "light" 4x title. 

It's definitely better with mods (I use the Absolute Enhancement Mod myself), but I wouldn't say it's "pathetic". 

Of course, you've probably played the game more than I have, so it's entirely possible the vanilla version has long since worn thin for you.    

The reason why I say EaW/FoC are pathetic is the unit selection was rather limited, even in the limited scope of the Galactic Civil War, the lack of any Galactic Conquests that didn't have the Zann Consortium, and the Zann Consortium in general being little more than Petroglyph's overpowered dream team.

I have beat each campaign at least once, but have grown tired of dominating the AI pretty consistently, and if it wasn't for mods like Phoenix Rising and Ultimate Empire at War, I would have uninstalled them a long time ago. I used play the Absolute Enhancement Mod and its counterpart Absolute Corruption Mod, but they lack the polish I am looking for. I don't even play a true vanilla version anymore, mine have my personally modified Master Text Files that fix stupid things like the Victory-class Star Destroyer being called the Victory Cruiser, the Heavy Assault Vehicle/transport B5 Juggernaut being called the HAVT B5 Juggernaut, etc.