I think you are confusings a familiar with an Avatar, an Avatar being a represntaion of another power, and a familiar being a magical compaion creature.
For a Familiar think of a witchs cat, for an Avatar, well think of any god who showed their face on earth, they would take a form, that form representing thire power. by killing the representation, you dont kill the god. And in some instances its also discribed as being able to redirect a dethly blow to your Avatar, and thus save your self.
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av·a·tar (
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n.
3. A temporary manifestation or aspect of a continuing entity
familiar [fəˈmɪlɪə]
n.
1. (Myth & Legend / Classical Myth & Legend) Also called familiar spirit a supernatural spirit often assuming animal form, supposed to attend and aid a witch, wizard, etc.