Ok I, patched to 1.06, updated my ATI drivers to the latest version (10.8), and still I am getting out of memory crashes and massive slow down. Here is my latest debugg.err. I would like you to note that I am not even this patient with my own mother.
http://pastebin.com/0j86iupp
Don't ask for a dump or anything else cause I can't find them, good luck.