Don't forget incest I think incest should be an allowable option, if you can't find anyone else to maryy (or don't want to). Maybe some negative bonuses after a while, however.

If ESRB concerns have removed ale from the game, seems like incest options will definitely be left to the modders. Song of Ice and Fire projects would need it if they want to be able to play 'historical' games with the Targaryens on the Iron Throne.

Re "second generation takes such a long time," I like how that provides a strong distinction between the game-opening phase and the got-your-feet-under-you phase.

i want incest i mean ingame